This was one of my hardest & brutal lessons to master.

I am fiercely loyal, I believe that it is one of my greatest strengths.

If I’m in your corner you know, without doubt, that I will always have your back & best interests at heart.

Yet previously it has also been my weakness or vulnerability too.

Being a loyal person doesn’t mean it’s reciprocated nor always appreciated.

Ask yourself would they, or do they, do the same for me?

Loyalty can so easily be used, abused & manipulated.

Many do not have nor understand loyalty & honour, nor do they hold the same values, truths, or moral compass.

Many are simply takers or users.

Some are simply narcissistic, self absorbed humans, devouring & exploiting all who cross their path. Believing the world owes them or its their entitlement.

Some aren’t loyal to you, they are loyal to what they need from you.

Some are only loyal till they have used & abused you, getting what they came to destroy, or take what is yours.

Some even try to pray on or play games to test your loyalty & kind heart.

Life will show you who is worthy of your loyalty, and indeed who is loyal to you.

You will have to endure a lot of hurt, disappointments, frustration & bewilderment until you actually learn your lessons.

Relationships must be balanced & mutually beneficial.

Are yours?

Once you master this lesson, it’s so much easier to love & honor you.

You know the truth & how it impacts & diminishes you, for your heart has learnt this pain & suffering from being used, then abandoned.

Then you are able to walk away if needed, with your head held high & a mighty weight falls off your back or chest.

Cut cords that bind or connect.

Teach people how to treat you.

Speak, know & live by your truth.

Know your moral compass & not negotiable values, and enforce them.

Learn to say enough is enough.

By putting strong, healthy, safe boundaries around you & your precious space & time.

Know what you deserve.

Don’t let your loyalty become slavery.

If they don’t appreciate what you bring to the table, let them eat alone.

Something to ponder,

Love, light & blessings,

Jenny Boffa

Energising Souls


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