Every single thing that you have gone through has made you who you are today.
Keep the lessons & let go of the hurt, wound, betrayal, fear, abandonment, grief etc.
In order to love who you are,
You cannot hate the experiences that shaped you.
Otherwise you will always have a void, a wound, a trigger, a vulnerability, an emptiness that you will fill with substances instead of love & light.
Something to ponder,
Love, light & blessings