Lessons

We teach people how to treat us.

Think about it,

If we allow or tolerate any disrespect, dishonesty, abuse, to be used, to be neglected, to be insulted.

Or how about the fact that you are always forgotten about & contacted only when they need something from you?

Do you have mutually beneficial relationships, friendships?

What about your family interactions & dynamics?

Do you simply put up with these behaviors to keep the peace?

Do you set strong healthy boundaries?

Are you able to say no?

Are you a people pleaser?

Are you a doormat?

Are you loved & cherished?

How you treat others sets the terms & conditions of any connection.

But that doesn’t mean your kindness is always received nor reciprocated.

Is there a balance between the giving & receiving?

Do you take someone’s shit always & stay mute out of fear?

Do you know your worth?

Or is it because that’s just how they are?

If you allow yourself to be neglected & used, running around like a chook with its head chopped off, bowing to their every whim.

Why would they change?

They are on easy street.

They have their sucker to make their life easier & you are just enabling their behavior whilst making your life harder & sad.

You self prophecies & allow your wounding & neglect.

And if you have the love of your life & don’t recognise, appreciate, love, honour, respect, support & adore her, she’s gone.

She knows her worth & wont settle for scraps.

Be careful what you tolerate,

We teach people how to treat us.

It will soon become your life & relationships.

Something to ponder,

Love, light & blessings

Jenny Boffa

Energising Souls

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