Do you have a kind heart?

Are you a giver?

Are you a generous person with your time?

Do you find everyone turns to you for support, help or guidance?

Do strangers tell you their stories?

Do friends turn to you for advice?

Do people expect you to magically fix everything for them?

Are you an emotional dumping ground?

Do you feel like a doormat?

But who is there for you?

Who really cares about you?

Who is there when you wobble or fall?

Who reciprocated kindness for you?

Who sees the pain & sadness in your eyes?

Are your relationships & friendships balanced?

Do you do all the giving?

Who is there for you to talk to?

Who sends you a message asking if you are ok?

Who feels like they have their door open for everyone, but never seems to gets an invite to catchup in return?

Do you only have fair weather friends?

Who is there for you through the rain, mud, shit or blood?

Sometimes, the girl who is always there for everyone else, needs someone to be there for her………..

Givers have to set boundaries,

Because takers never do………

And eventually there comes a time when she no longer cares so much anymore,

no longer waits,

no longer yearns,

no longer gives so freely,

will no longer beg to be seen or supported,

will no longer take on the weight of others burdens,

will pull away setting healthy strong boundaries.

She may even withdraw her love, light, blessings & friendship completely.

She learns her worth.

She knows what she brings to the table and refuses to settle for scraps.

Is she you?

I know she’s me…………..

Something to ponder,

Love, light & blessings

Jenny Boffa

Energising Souls


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