Little Boys

Little Boys

I was blessed with 2 sons.

I love the difference between boys & girls.

We really are made so very different, Mars & Venus, and with my 3 men, I learnt how you work & what makes you tick.

It saddens me when I hear boys being told things like

Don’t be a sook,

Boys don’t cry,

Boys have to be brave & strong

Boys aren’t allowed to be sad or overwhelmed.

Boys get ridiculed by peer pressure if they are sensitive or different.

Boys have their ability of self expression diminished.

Bullshit – we all have the same basic primal needs – to be seen, to be heard, to feel safe, to be loved/nurtured.

Boys have every right & need to express their feelings.

Because that little boy, so sweet & innocent, who never learnt how to express his feelings, because he was made to feel ashamed for being sensitive, will shut them down, will bury them, will disconnect from them, be confused by them, be ignored because of them.

Feel lost, alone, vulnerable & isolated.

Will detach from his heart & become hard.

Will become mind/ego based.

Will become desensitised.

Will become angry, hard & cruel.

Will hurt others, because hurt people hurt people.

What sort of man do you think he’s going to grow up to be?

What do you want your sons to grow up to be?

Certainly not a broken, lost, angry man who constantly feels he fails, or isn’t good enough, or worthy enough.

No, we want men who know the strength in connecting to his feelings & with the ability to freely express them, not numb mutes.

Perhaps if tearful little boys were hugged, nurtured, encouraged to communicate, seen & heard, respecting their truth, we wouldn’t have so many angry, broken, lost, traumatised & struggling men.

Something to ponder

Love, light & blessings

Jenny Boffa

Energising Souls


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It’s only words…………

Words can destroy what has taken years to build.

Words create a conversation.

Words empower.

Words diminish.

Words can manipulate.

Words can be true or false.

Words are our way to express feelings.

Words or lack or then can be deafening.

Words can pierce a fragile heart & soul.

Words are believed.

Words create a story or visual.

Words are sometimes better left unsaid.

Words, Once spoken may be forgiven, but are they ever forgotten.

It’s only words, or is it?

Something to ponder,

Love, light & blessings

Jenny Boffa

Energising Souls



Truth, the whole truth, and nothing but the truth.

Only way I know how to be, speak & live my life.

Truth, I always pray for you,

Truth, you always guide me,

Truth, you always set me free


You have a choice……..

You have a choice……….

You can choose to be negative,

You can choose to be positive,

You can choose to be angry,

You can choose to be sad,

You can choose to stay upset or hurt,

You can choose resentment & hatred,

You can choose to forgive,

You can choose to give & receive love,

You can choose compassion,

You can choose understanding,

You can choose kindness,

You can choose joy & fun,

You can choose happiness,

You can choose to stay in pain & suffering,

You can choose or make a change,

You choose are you a victim or victorious?

It’s your life, choose it.

It’s all how you choose to look at it, engage in it, react to it, give & receive it.

Simple as that,

Something to ponder

Love, light & blessings

Jenny Boffa

Energising Souls


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It’s going to be a very special year.

Love, light & blessings

Jenny Boffa

Energising Souls


Energy Update 6/1/2019 partial Solar Eclipse & New Moon

Partial Solar Eclipse & New Moon

Energy Update


I got woken 5.55am, being told Jenny it’s time to write now, there’s lots to tell.

I chuckled, 3 x 5 the number of change by the power of 3.

Wow what a powerhouse deal the University of Life has just handed us.

6/1/2019 = 19/10/1 – new beginnings

Partial Solar Eclipse has played havoc the last 3 days.

It isn’t visible in the Southern Hemisphere our Northern family see this one, but we have certainly felt it & great streams of solar energy have radiated down on us & Pachamama.

It starts (Adel) 10.04am

Midpoint/peak 12.11pm

End 2.18pm

I wrote about & warned you about the incoming energy in my last update.

That it would demand you see where you are still playing small, compromising or diminishing yourself.

If you aren’t being authentic or truthful lessons would be learnt.

If was designed to unbalance, frustrate, annoy or unsettle you & your world enough to push you through the last of your stubbornness, or resistance to the necessary changes.

It made you look at yourself, life, hopes & dreams, even perceived failures & face some bitter/sweet truths.

Were you set to self sabotage again or let those fears win?

But did you give in or did you stand tall?

Partial Solar Eclipse shows us where we are still partially eclipsing ourself & our connection to sun/soul food & energy.

We have done mighty self mastery work now we tie up the loose ends.

But the University of Life has big planets playing too, Saturn our parent said no, you will set those boundaries & if you kept crossing them, not listening or growing, you have come a cropper, fallen flat on your face.

Bottoms falling out of worlds.

Reality hits & checks.

The enforcer says no, look, listen, learn, grow up, pull your head in, get your act together, we know what’s best for you, like any good parent does to a petulant child.

Then I saw how we are culminating our lessons from July last year where these bookends of eclipses have played out. So what was happening since then, that has finally shown you what you needed to learn & grow through?

I was shown the symbology of making my Goat Hide Medicine Drum at Teacher Training way back in September. I saw how it was preparing me with its sacred medicine to endure through the last quarter & the mighty challenges that were yet to come.

What I had to overcome.

Goat Medicine is symbolic of Capricorn Medicine.

It teaches us endurance, resilience, determination.

That stubborn old goat will see that sweet tasty branch way up top of that mountain & will steadily & shore footedly ascend till it reaches its prize.

Often finding itself on shaky, crumbling or dangerous ground.

But refusing to give in or admit defeat.

Only then with its prize, will it stop & look around, take a moment, chew things over, savour it’s tasty morsel.

Finally seeing where it has arrived & how far it has actually come.

Well that’s us now.

Then we have our New Moon in Capricorn.

It arrives at 11.58am (Adel) time today.

Right after the maximum eclipse energies.

Where we anchor, ground, stabilize, put up & establish strong healthy boundaries.

Structures, strength, endurance, hard work are the attributes gifted to you now.

We get to break through that resistance to our new beginnings, new hopes, new dreams.

We land firmly on safe ground.

We put strong healthy roots down that will nurture us all year.

For many there is a new life, after walking away from toxic & unfulfilled relationships, friendships & family dynamics.

Many are set to embark on a new career or follow their passions, dreams, desires.

The University of Life says blessings Dear Ones, dream your world into being.

Manifest those dreams now.

Ground then firmly into Earth, they are no longer dreams, they are ready to become your reality.

A world we love, thrive in, grow in, are happy in, not run & hide in.

We don’t belong in worlds like that anymore.

Do you know how beautiful you are from the inside out now?

Do you know you are so loved & supported?

What new earth & world are you about to birth?

Dream big Dear Ones, Dream big.

Now we truly get to reap what we have sown.

And I for one are ready & so grateful to receive in abundance.

We walk free & tall now, with ease & grace.

Something to ponder,

Love, light & blessings

Jenny Boffa

Energising Souls


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Clear this space,

It is done with peace, ease & grace.

For when the heart is open,

The light within begins to shine,

Just like the solar eclipse,

I now see,

Allow prayers & sacred seeds to activate.

Grounding heaven to earth.

Walk tall now dear ones,

Cast the shadows behind you,

For the I Am essence has awakened.

It’s time to dream your world into being.

Deepest Gratitude, for unknown blessings, already on their way.

The dark moon will reveal much if you have allowed the resistance to fade away.

It’s time to rise above it,

Fly high like an Eagle,

Let your dreams take flight.

Love, light & blessings

Jenny Boffa

Energising Souls


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The shape of things

The shape of things

Everything that has happened to you,

The good, the bad, the ugly has shaped you into the person you are today.

In order to love all of you,

You can’t hate people, parts of your life or experiences of your past that shaped you.

It’s never a wasted lesson, if we learn from it.

Our greatest growth, evolution or enlightenment comes from our toughest times.

For its then that we find the strength of our character, our moral compass, our belief systems, our not negotiables & the cloth we are cut from.

That doesn’t come in the fair weather, we find them in the midst of life’s storms.

We get to see who genuinely loves us, helps us, abuses us, disregards us, diminishes us.

We find truth, our truth.

Your greatest teachers will be the ones that give you the most harshest, painful or brutal lessons.

And then one day, when time has past by, you have licked your wounds & done your healing, learnt your lessons, gaining the wisdom, something happens.

You will be able to look back with compassion, understanding, kindness even forgiveness.

You will actually be grateful for the mighty injustice or tragedy.

You see it was probably a great blessing in disguise.

That you actually had a lucky escape.

Your life changed forever after, you took a different path, changed your circle of friends.

You got out of a toxic relationship then met the love of your life.

You left that job that sucked the life out of you & now you are happy.

Maybe you saw that you are nothing like them & never will be.

You realised you simply didn’t belong there anymore.

There are always painful endings before birthing magnificent new beginnings.

It’s all part of this Journey called Life.

Love, honour & be proud of all of you.

You are special,

You are beautiful,

You are important.

You are seen.

You are loved.

You are perfectly you.

Something to ponder Dear Ones,

Love, light & blessings

Jenny Boffa

Energising Souls


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Energy Update 4/1/2019

Energy Update


I was woken really early this morning, 4.30am hearing Jenny, wake up, go outside, lessons await.

Well with less than 2 hours sleep I thought really!

But as I sat outside in the Ethers in the still of the night, a restlessness grew in me, because it wasn’t still.

Where’s the Ether, the sacred space?

Without it nothing can leave, nothing can enter, nothing can be released, nothing is open or accessible, nothing can be communicated or flow.

The whirring of air conditioners broke the peace, the stale residue of the heat remained, there was a distinct disconnect between heaven & earth.

Then Chanel immediately came through, yes, you feel it, you must write about this uneasy feeling for many are experiencing it, but help them, for they won’t be able to understand where it’s coming from.

I was shown it’s the Eclipse energy upsetting the apple cart, it’s designed to irritate you until you face or find the very resistance in you that is blocking you from bringing heaven to earth.

I was shown how so many dreams are in the Ethers but many aren’t grounding themselves or their new beginnings.

Where have you blocked or eclipsed your new earth, new essence, new vibration?

There is much resentment, frustration, resistance to change, that is stopping the forward momentum.

The struggle between the old & new.

Many overwhelmed & exhausted, unsure of their path forward.

You must purge the old & birth the new.

So look at you, your world, your words, your feelings, your thoughts.

If they aren’t unified, there will still be pain & suffering.

Are you getting in the way of your hopes & dreams?

Are you resisting great truths?

Are you living your truth, or are you still living a lie?

If there is conflict or resistance in you, your truth is there, unseen, unheard, unacknowledged.

Try a little love & compassion.

They are not luxuries,

It is a necessity.

It’s what makes the world go around.

Something to ponder

Love, light & blessings

Jenny Boffa

Energising Souls


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